One of the worst PE
(physical education) lessons I have ever had was when I was five years old. At
this point "PE" meant a class of five-year-olds playing games in a
sports hall with a couple of teachers directing us. For the most part, it was a
good lesson - what made this lesson so terrible was that my teacher
decided that I needed to learn how to jump rope and jump ropes, quite frankly,
terrified me. While I could hula-hoop with the best and hang upside down from
the monkey bars longer than anyone else in my class, jumping rope was a skill
that evaded me completely. I would either jump too soon or too late, the rope
would get tangled up in my feet and I would fall over. I tried to explain this
to my teacher but what ended up coming out was; “I can’t do it. I can’t do it.”
She, of course, still wanted me to try and I, being a sensitive child, burst into
tears. At this she finally got frustrated, declared that if I was going to act
like a baby then she would treat me like one and walked away, leaving me
standing with the jump rope handles in my hands and tears streaming down my
face.
Years later, when I had
mastered the jump rope, I remembered that lesson and realised what a little
fool I had been. I was so convinced of my inability to do something that I
refused to even try. I realised that no matter how silly I might have looked
trying to improve, it would never match up to how silly I was in obstinately refusing
help. Had I let my teacher coach me through it instead of crying, I might have learned
to jump rope when I was five.
Wow. That seems like a wicked harsh motivational phrase to say to a child, especially at just five years! However, there is a strange lesson learned here. I am saddened though that such a disheartening teacher taught you that lesson.
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